“I Don’t Really Care”: Sandra Doorley’s Misleading Moment and the Fallout That Followed
By Editor David R
Lest We Forget
“A reminder of what happens when an authoritative figure speaks and acts without regard for consequences. In moments like these, we glimpse how power sees itself—not in public statements, but in private behavior.“
The Traffic Stop That Stopped the Narrative
On April 22, 2024, Monroe County District Attorney Sandra Doorley was pulled over for speeding—55 in a 35 mph zone. What should have been a routine traffic stop turned into a viral spectacle of power, entitlement, and ethical erosion. Captured on bodycam footage, Doorley berated the officer, refused to comply, and uttered the now-infamous phrase: “I don’t really care.”
She didn’t care about the speed limit. She didn’t care about the officer’s authority. She didn’t care about the optics of calling the police chief mid-stop to demand the officer back off. And she certainly didn’t care that she was being recorded.
But Monroe County—and the rest of the country—did.

Scene One: The Garage Showdown
The footage begins with Officer Cameron Crisafulli trailing Doorley’s vehicle, lights flashing. Instead of pulling over, Doorley drives home, parks in her garage, and confronts the officer in her driveway. She’s on the phone with Webster Police Chief Dennis Kohlmeier, asking him to “tell your officer to stop [expletive] following me.”
The officer, calm but firm, explains the violation. Doorley, visibly irritated, responds: This wasn’t just a lapse in judgment. It was a masterclass in how not to wield public office
Misleading Moment #1: The “I’m the DA” Defense
Doorley’s assertion that she could prosecute herself wasn’t just flippant—it was misleading. District attorneys are not above the law, and suggesting that her role grants her immunity undermines the very justice system she’s sworn to uphold.
Her behavior triggered investigations from multiple bodies, including:
- The Monroe County Board of Ethics
- The Office of Public Integrity
- The Eighth Judicial District’s grievance committee
- The New York State Commission on Prosecutorial Conduct
Each probe aimed to answer a simple question: Did Doorley’s actions violate ethical or legal standards?
Spoiler: Yes. But the consequences remain murky.
Misleading Moment #2: The Email That Preceded the Storm
Just days before the traffic stop, Doorley sent a scathing email to her staff. In it, she praised a few prosecutors for managing their caseloads well, then turned on the rest:
She demanded mandatory meetings and threatened “changes and movement” depending on performance. The tone was authoritarian, the timing suspicious. It painted a picture of a DA under pressure, lashing out internally before combusting publicly.
The email, leaked to the press, added fuel to the fire. It revealed a culture of fear and dysfunction inside the DA’s office—one that mirrored her behavior on the driveway.
Misleading Moment #3: The Public Statement That Wasn’t
After the footage went public, Doorley issued a statement that the ethics board later called “misleadingly antiseptic.” It downplayed her actions, omitted key details, and attempted to reframe the incident as a momentary lapse.
Only after national backlash did she offer a fuller apology. But by then, the damage was done.
Her initial response wasn’t just tone-deaf—it was strategic misdirection. A classic case of minimizing misconduct to preserve power.
Ethic
Ethics Violations and the Fallout
The Monroe County Board of Ethics concluded that Doorley’s conduct violated the county’s code of ethics. Specifically:
- She used her position to attempt to influence a police officer
- She failed to comply with lawful instructions during a traffic stop
- She misrepresented the incident in her initial public statement
The board’s findings were forwarded to the New York State Commission on Prosecutorial Conduct, which has the authority to recommend disciplinary action, including removal from office.
But here’s the catch: Doorley is an elected official. That means removal isn’t automatic—it’s political.
The Political Shield
The Political Shield
Doorley’s defenders argue that she’s a tough-on-crime DA who made a mistake under stress. Her critics say she’s emblematic of a deeper rot in public institutions—where accountability is optional and arrogance is rewarded.
Governor Kathy Hochul, while condemning the behavior, stopped short of calling for removal. The Monroe County Legislature, largely silent. The state’s judicial oversight bodies, slow-moving.
In the absence of swift consequences, Doorley remains in office. Her authority intact. Her credibility, not so much.
The Media Response: From Local
The Media Response: From Local to National
Local outlets like the Democrat & Chronicle and WXXI News covered the story with restraint. But national media picked it up with gusto. CNN, MSNBC, and even The Daily Show ran segments dissecting the footage.
Editorials poured in. Op-eds questioned whether prosecutors should be held to higher standards. Satirical headlines mocked the “I don’t care” defense. TikTok creators reenacted the scene with dramatic flair.
Doorley became a symbol—not just of misconduct, but of the widening gap between public servants and public accountability.
Misleading.com’s Take: Why This Matters
At Misleading.com, we track moments where power distorts truth. Doorley’s case isn’t just about a traffic stop. It’s about:

- The erosion of ethical norms in public office
- The weaponization of authority to avoid consequences
- The failure of institutions to respond swiftly and transparently
It’s also about narrative control. Doorley tried to frame the incident as a bad day. But the footage told a different story. And the public, armed with receipts, refused to let it go.
The Broader Pattern: Misconduct in the Age of Cameras
Doorley’s moment joins a growing list of public officials caught on camera behaving badly. From police chiefs to school board members, the pattern is familiar:
- Misconduct occurs
- Footage surfaces
- Initial denial or minimization
- Public backlash
- Institutional delay
- Partial accountability—if any
The camera doesn’t lie. But institutions often do—by omission, by delay, by silence.
What Comes
What Comes Next
Doorley’s case is still under review by state ethics bodies. Disciplinary action could range from censure to removal. But the political calculus is complex.
Meanwhile, Doorley continues to prosecute cases, lead her office, and represent Monroe County in court. Her authority remains legally intact, even as her moral authority erodes.
The public, however, has moved on—from outrage to satire to resignation. And that’s the most dangerous fallout of all: when misconduct becomes normalized, and “I don’t really care” becomes a governing philosophy.
Final Thought: The Cost of Not Caring
Sandra Doorley’s misleading moment wasn’t just a personal failure. It was a civic one. When public officials stop caring about the rules, the public stops believing in the system.
And when the system protects those who say “I don’t really care,” it sends a message to everyone else: maybe we shouldn’t either.
But we do. And we will.
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